Overthinking will rob your peace
Think….Think….Think…and over a period it will become overthinking. Overthinking causes unnecessary stress. It is not a good habit to possess. You can observe your thoughts clearly when you remain calm.
If you are thinking more than 10 to 15 minutes, it will be about the past happenings or the future or upcoming events. Beauty on overthinking is, you will dwell in the past or future and will not come to the present.
Actually the calmness and steadiness will be in the present and not in past or future. The more you dwell in past or future, observe your breath. It will be restless and will be in abnormal rhythm. This is not good for health. It will create multiple physical and psychological issues.
At this time, you will be emotionally weak. Your decision making will be poor. Thoughts will be like ripples of water when stone is thrown on it. Overthinking will rob your happiness and thoughts will be distorted. Instead of solving the issues, your mind will be wavering. You will become a fearmonger of your own self.
In one of the life skill classes, my mentor taught me that:
Past is like broken glass pot – You cannot fix the broken pot
Future is like cat on the wall – you don’t know where this cat will fall from the wall.
Present is the treasure. – It is right there with you – “The Now” moment.
An easy tip for you to bring yourself back to the present moment is through your breath. Observe your breath. Take few long deep breaths. Settle down and slowly come back to the present moment. It will be challenging while you start practicing. However, it will become a habit on regular practice.
Few things are out of your control and few are in your control. When you understand these TWO differences, life will be easy and it will prevent from overthinking.
Things that you cannot control:
- The past, future and it’s occurrences.
- You cannot control what others are thinking about you or their opinions.
- Similarly, you cannot control their actions.
- Whatever is happening around you.
- Obviously the results of your efforts.
Things that You can control:
- Your boundaries as where to pitch in and where you should not poke your nose.
- Your thoughts and actions.
- Your goals and objectives.
- Where you should channelize your energy.
- How you should interact with yourSELF.
- How do you handles your challenges.
Without having awareness on what you can and cannot control, you will end up in overthinking and your energy will get drained unnecessarily.
Wake up; Shake Up. Be with people who can uplift you morally even in crisis. Surround with positively interacting communities who can see your elevation. Do not do or think anything that harm your mental wellness. Be happy with what you have and even if you do not have anything, be grateful that you have LIFE with you to live to the fullest.
The entire world is creating emotional pollution by accumulating unwanted thought processes and this is not good for the ecosystem. It is right time that we should be in peace and help others to be in peace.
Let’s live in peace and not rest in peace.
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In Gratitude,
N.R.Rakesh Babu
Psychologist | Doctoral Researcher
www.rakeshbabu.com | www.rbac.in
